7 Healthy Family Systems vs Toxic Family Systems
Hi! Many of you asked for a video to contrast My 7 Types Of Toxic Family Systems. Here you go!
Chapters:
0:00 Intro
2:25 Woititz 10 Healthy Vs Unhealthy
6:54 7 Looks Good on Paper / It looks Whatever
8:45 6 Ships in the Night / Cultivate Connection
11:45 5 Anti Love / Love Cherish
13:25 4 Chaos System / Stability System
16:34 3 Toxic Divorce / Healthy Co-parenting
18:26 2 Toxic Single Parent / Conscious Unburdened
20:10 1 Aggressor Codependent / Healthy Conflict & Equality
22:27 Outro
In this video we cover: triggers, childhood trauma, inner child, inner child work, c-ptsd, ptsd, toxic parents, narcissistic abuse, assertion, mind reading, moods, healing, abusive parents, emotional abuse, childhood ptsd, repressed memories, hypervigilance, narcissistic parents, emotionally abusive parents, child abuse, narcissistic father, childhood emotional neglect, abuse, narcissistic mother, single parent, divorce, chaotic family, codependency, healthy parenting, co-parenting, friendship, single parents.
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Very very good video
Is there way to repair unhealthy behaviour from a parent to child? As a parent, I’m reassured that there have been many healthy things in place from us. But there are things that haven’t. Particular with co parenting and having ADHD, my own trauma too. I’ve definitely created an environment sometimes, or reacted sometimes that is unhealthy. Is there anything a parent can do to repair this? (Of course none of what has been done is abuse where the child shouldn’t be around the parent).
To add more context, its regarding teenagers and unhealthy parenting happening during the teenage years. I feel like I did well when they were younger and worked so hard to repair my own trauma and be the best for them. But I have definitely not been all they deserve as teenagers.
Healty Family Sistem✅
Toxic Family Sistem❌
I’m so conflicted by the thought that my mom does love me and does try, but at the same time says she understands me when she barely even know the truth of who I am, or when I try to speak to her about my issues she doesn’t listen. She called me manipulative once while I cried.
I dont feel like I can trust my bio dad, despite him bringing me many more opertunities than my mom or steppndad has given me
And my Steppdad is unavailable for real bonding.
I know I’m loved and that my mom cares but it hurts so much to not be understood, or get any sort of real attention or time spent with me regularly. But at the same time I know they’ve given me that on occasion, although rare.
I’m starting to give up on her. I want out.
Love the positivity!